Posted in: darrelrussell.com edit
07 Jan 2009
he comes home late,wearing female perfum,doesnt spend weekend with me ,ful of excuses for everything.Do you have children? My father had an affair on my mom and it was a nightmare for us kids. We were the true victims. my mom chose to rant and rave. Having the evidence she chose to fuss cuss and place fear in my and my brothers lives. Just because she wanted to hear him say I did have an affair on you. if you have evidence, tell him he has two choices, keep his family or keep his lover, NO OTHER OPTIONS!!!!!!Hey, whats the problem in you, it means you have no guts to have extra marital sex with anybody....... it means you are so boar ring, that's why your husband is in search of one another I guide you, why you dint entertain him as per his will, and what he want ? give it to him.......He will be yours......where's the clear evidence...he might have been out buying perfume for you!Cheating on him back will do nothing but start a vicious cycle of cheating. He will do it again and again. How long u been married? Leave his A$$ for awhile and stick to it, u will see a difference in him. If not then dump the jerk.sounds to me like he is giving you all the signs of a man that wants out of a relationship but only sticks around because he has become comfortable with his lifestyle.If I were in your shoes I would just pack up and leave before the heart ache becomes to much more to bear.Dump him! You deserve so much better!!!!!well i say if u have the evidence leave his ***thats no clear evidence until you find him with a woman on a bed nakedTake him to the maury shownext time ho goes out all weekend..change the locks......well, what do you want to happen. If you want to stay with him, tell him you love him and that you want him to stop. That does not always work, but....tell him you are not dumb and that you know that he is cheating on you. Tell him to stop.
If you do not want to be with him anymore, leave him, tell him why and then leave while he is gone with his lover.find any thoungs???? thats clear evidence!!!you need to get a private detective on his tail to take pictures, if you have photographic evidence that is pretty clear. Or get a friend who he does not know to follow him and take pictures of him.Sounds like it time for you to get outHire a spy or have some one follow him and take pictures for evidence. You can use this in a divorce trail.Ok, so if you have the evidence why are you still dealing with his bull????? You gota be strong and move on with yourself. Dont let a man hold u down, especially a guy that wants his cake and eat it too. Just play the same game hes playin! Leave his *** and show him what he once had!!!!its abvious he is cheating
so u just pack and leave or the best is to pack his stuff and kick him out tell him to go spend the night with his mistry u dun deserve this hun no one deserve to be cheated on!time to get a lawyer and divorce